You have to first convince her that anal sex is pleasurable, and can be pain-free if you do it right. She might have a bad experience before and having anal sex is the last thing she wants to try again. Talk to her nicely and try to get her to agree. Make her feel relaxed and she will be more willing to agree. There must be a mutual agreement to try anal sex before we move on to stage 2.
Another good position is when she lays on her back, and you put her legs on her shoulders. This will give her enough leverage and make her be opened wide for you. From this position, slowly insert the penis into her anus. This is a good position because while you penetrate her, you can stimulate her clitoris, making her enjoy anal sex even more.
Now that you are clean, your body then needs to be worked to the point where you can’t wait for anal penetration to begin. As well as regular foreplay it is best to also participate in anal. If you don’t feel comfortable with the idea of your partners tongue up your bum, you may need a rethink. You are preparing for a large erect penis to enter a very tight downward chute. The sensation of a loving partner tickling and teasing, licking and blowing is a very sensible way to prepare your whole body and mind for the bigger and better things to come.
Mistake #1: They try to persuade their woman to have anal sex with them by using logical arguments. For a woman sex is virtually 100% emotional. Therefore, logical arguments are a total waste of time.
Our group started at a local breastfeeding forum, Starfish Lactation ( See Resources for Reno Families ) and has grown into a network of wonderful women. We meet every Tuesday and talk about anything and everything while our babes play.
These are some things that the fairer sex does not appreciate about us. Why we do it, is one question and why we shouldn’t do it is what I have an answer for. Because the babes don’t like it. And the list starts with…
You may want to start off with some anal toys. The most commonly used toys for anal sex are anal beads, anal plugs, and vibrators the come in many different shapes and sizes. Anal beads are just what they imply. They are a string of beads that come in a long strand so that you can insert them into the anus and then slowly pull them out for maximum pleasure. Anal plugs can be inserted and left there during foreplay for intense feeling and enjoyment. Then you have the probes and sexual harassment vibrators. They come in various sizes and work with different configurations.
Before you and your partner get started, play with your anus. Insert a well lubricated object (just make sure there are no jagged edges ie fingernails, damaged toys) inside of you or have your partner massage the rim of your anus. When you are both ready, consider exploring safe analingus (oral sex of the anus) with your partner – if you do not have any dental dams, you can cut open a condom lengthwise and place it over the opening of the anus to protect yourself from bacteria normally found in the anus.