I have frequently used the phrase “psychic vampire,” or “energy vampire” to explain a person who extracts energy from others as a way to survive in their world. We have now all heard of vampires, who feed on the blood of others. The psychic vampire feeds on the energy of others. Nevertheless it isn’t usually a acutely aware endeavor.
Narcissistic action is really an “unconscious” behavior. The perpetrator isn’t normally aware of how his actions are affecting others. On the contrary, the perpetrator usually feels he’s the one being victimized. Narcissistic persons are usually energy vampires.
How does one know when his/her energy is being harvested? It’s really quite simple. Just be aware of how you are feeling around completely different people. Start making mental notes. Some people will leave you feeling pleased, energized, or nurtured. Others will leave you feeling drained, tired, depressed, offended or confused in some way.
If the person who leaves you feeling tired and drained has this affect on you most of the time than they are likely an energy vampire. You may enter the interplay or conversation feeling good about something and throughout the course of the conversation you’re reworked into feeling bad. For example: Say you just got a big promotion at work and you might be really excited. You go residence from work and you might be high with excitement and share the nice news with your partner. He listens to you talk about your promotion and then says something like “Good for you! Hey did you take my blue water bottle this morning?”
O.K. his words weren’t clearly cruel or condemning. He even said “good for you!” But someway you are feeling that you have not been heard and that he does not really share in your excitement. In fact it seems more that he may care less. You are feeling a plummet in your energy and instantly you aren’t feeling very excited anymore. Chances are you’ll respond by saying “No I have never seen your blue bottle!” And…he goes on to give attention to the bottle asking you if you’re certain you did not take it because you could have a habit of taking his stuff, etc.
The celebration of your promotion at work was reduce very short. Actually if you want to celebrate at all you will need to call a pal who actually cares about you and your good news. But by now you may not really feel much like celebrating. It’s possible you’ll really feel that your promotion really isn’t that big of a deal after all. Especially for the reason that particular person closest to you doesn’t seem to think it is.
Whenever you feel a sudden plummet of your energy whether from a buddy, an acquaintance, a co-worker or a spouse or partner, chances are you’ll be dealing with a psychic energy vampire.
A psychic vampire just isn’t essentially a psychic particular person however quite someone who preys on the psychic energy discipline around a person.
I’m very sensitive and read energy quite easily now. But prior to now, I did not know enough about this sensitivity to be able to interpret what was going on with me and why I often felt drained when around a lot of people, or sure folks especially. Now I’m fairly aware of what is going on round me and know when to depart a room or a situation.
I meet lots of psychic vampires who look like just normal individuals going about their business. However here is what I notice. These type of individuals appear to want something from me. I discover the conversations are usually one sided the place they’re doing all the talking and I am doing all the listening. There is no such thing as a true interaction. If I attempt to relate or share something about myself pertaining to the conversation, I really feel as if I’m not in any respect heard. My contribution is passed up as they continue their dialog as if I have never said a word.
Once I ask myself what the intention of these people is perhaps I see they are looking for admiration, approval, positive feedback, are trying to sell me something or get me to imagine something. If I begin to feel aggravated, drained, or tired, I instantly excuse myself and leave the conversation.
In healthy relationships we feed every other. We share energy. One of us could be feeling down and the opposite can encourage us and say things to support us which can deliver us up. Different instances we’re those helping and encouraging the other. It is a give and take energy alternate that is mutually beneficial. Nevertheless with energy vampires, there is no give and take, only take. They don’t have any energy of their own reserves to give.
A psychic vampire or energy vampire is an emotionally and spiritually depleted individual. He would not have an inner life and is not spiritually related to life. He has spent his life extracting energy from the outside instead of learning the best way to go within and domesticate his own inside garden.
Think of the human body and its need for vitamins and minerals. Our our bodies have the ability to fabricate most of what we’d like from within if given the fitting nutrients and building blocks. However to illustrate a person eats nothing however junk meals and then takes quite a lot of vitamins. He’s relying on this exterior substance to feed him instead of feeding his body healthy substances that build his body on a mobile level. If he actually wished to be healthy he would learn that he wanted to cleanse out all the toxins that have been accumulating from years of bad eating after which begin taking in high nutrient dense meals to rebuild his body.