I’ve frequently used the phrase “psychic vampire,” or “energy vampire” to explain an individual who extracts energy from others in order to survive of their world. Now we have all heard of vampires, who feed on the blood of others. The psychic vampire feeds on the energy of others. Nevertheless it shouldn’t be normally a acutely aware endeavor.
Narcissistic motion is really an “unconscious” behavior. The perpetrator is not normally aware of how his actions are affecting others. Quite the opposite, the perpetrator often feels he’s the one being victimized. Narcissistic people are normally energy vampires.
How does one know when his/her energy is being harvested? It’s really quite simple. Just be aware of how you’re feeling round totally different people. Start making mental notes. Some folks will depart you feeling glad, energized, or nurtured. Others will leave you feeling drained, tired, depressed, angry or confused in some way.
If the one that leaves you feeling tired and drained has this affect on you more often than not than they’re likely an energy vampire. You could enter the interaction or conversation feeling good about something and during the course of the dialog you’re reworked into feeling bad. For instance: Say you just bought a big promotion at work and you might be really excited. You go home from work and you’re high with excitement and share the great news with your partner. He listens to you talk about your promotion after which says something like “Good for you! Hey did you take my blue water bottle this morning?”
O.K. his words weren’t clearly merciless or condemning. He even said “good for you!” But in some way you’re feeling that you haven’t been heard and that he doesn’t really share in your excitement. Actually it seems more that he might care less. You’re feeling a plummet in your energy and all of a sudden you are not feeling very excited anymore. You may reply by saying “No I haven’t seen your blue bottle!” And…he goes on to concentrate on the bottle asking you if you are sure you did not take it because you have a habit of taking his stuff, etc.
The celebration of your promotion at work was cut very short. Actually if you wish to celebrate in any respect you will need to call a friend who truly cares about you and your good news. However by now chances are you’ll not feel much like celebrating. Chances are you’ll really feel that your promotion really isn’t that big of a deal after all. Especially since the person closest to you doesn’t seem to think it is.
Everytime you really feel a sudden plummet of your energy whether or not from a friend, an acquaintance, a co-worker or a partner or partner, it’s possible you’ll be dealing with a psychic energy vampire.
A psychic vampire just isn’t essentially a psychic particular person however slightly somebody who preys on the psychic energy subject around a person.
I am very sensitive and read energy quite simply now. However up to now, I did not know enough about this sensitivity to be able to interpret what was happening with me and why I typically felt drained when round a lot of people, or certain people especially. Now I am pretty aware of what’s going on round me and know when to leave a room or a situation.
I meet plenty of psychic vampires who look like just normal folks going about their business. However here is what I notice. These type of people seem to want something from me. I notice the conversations are typically one sided the place they’re doing all of the talking and I am doing all the listening. There isn’t any true interaction. If I try to relate or share something about myself pertaining to the conversation, I really feel as if I am not in any respect heard. My contribution is passed up as they continue their dialog as if I have never said a word.
After I ask myself what the intention of those individuals is likely to be I see they’re looking for admiration, approval, positive feedback, are trying to sell me something or get me to consider something. If I begin to really feel annoyed, drained, or tired, I immediately excuse myself and leave the conversation.
In healthy relationships we feed each other. We share energy. One in all us might be feeling down and the other can encourage us and say things to assist us which can carry us up. Different instances we’re the ones serving to and encouraging the other. It’s a give and take energy alternate that’s mutually beneficial. Nonetheless with energy vampires, there is no such thing as a give and take, only take. They don’t have any energy in their own reserves to give.
A psychic vampire or energy vampire is an emotionally and spiritually depleted individual. He does not have an inner life and is not spiritually connected to life. He has spent his life extracting energy from the outside instead of learning learn how to go within and domesticate his own internal garden.
Think of the human body and its want for vitamins and minerals. Our bodies have the ability to fabricate most of what we want from within if given the correct vitamins and building blocks. However for example a person eats nothing however junk meals and then takes plenty of vitamins. He is counting on this external substance to feed him instead of feeding his body healthy substances that build his body on a cellular level. If he actually needed to be healthy he would learn that he needed to cleanse out all the toxins which were accumulating from years of bad consuming and then start taking in high nutrient dense foods to rebuild his body.